One of the things I love most about doing animal communication is how clear they are when they “speak.” They get right to the point and say what they mean in very few words. I mean, VERY few.
A woman called me to help with her cat. The animal had run off and refused to be trapped or enticed back into the house. I got that she was old and sick, and wanted to be left alone to die on her own terms.
The owner begged and pleaded – literally – for kitty to return home.
“Tell her, if she comes home, I’ll give her the stinky treats she likes.”[CAT] “No.” [OWNER] “And I promise she can have that spot on the couch that she’s not allowed on. [CAT] “No.” [OWNER] “Tell her that-“ [CAT] “Nuh-uh.”
It went on and on like this for a good while, the cat being very clear about her intentions. The owner, naturally, was turning herself inside out with promises, pleas, explanations and the kitchen sink, but kitty wasn’t having it.
There was no need for her to share her reasoning, no long explanations to patch up the owner’s feelings. She simply said what was what.
For her part, the owner was taking on a lot of emotional weight, worried that kitty would think she hadn’t tried hard enough to get her back. I got very clearly that that never even crossed the cat’s mind.
Animals don’t get into the complicated emotional riffs that we humans do: “If I don’t do this, then so and so will think this and then I’ll have to do the other thing, yadda yadda yadda.” You know how it is: we’re playing perpetual chess games in our head with the people and circumstances in our life. It’s a way for us to avoid conflicts (or in some bitchy cases, CAUSE conflicts. Hello, Real Housewives).
But this perpetual emotional jujitsu is exhausting.
Animals don’t bother with it. Their inner lives are clear and simple. I don’t mean this to sound like they’re stupid, because they are most definitely not. I actually see this as indicative of their superiority – they’re not tying themselves in knots over every little thing. They don’t complicate the situation or attach judgements or look for hidden meanings in another’s words. They don’t blame or hold grudges. They are a walking Zen moment with stinky breath.
I mean, how else can a dog continue to eagerly greet their owner even when said owner is a straight-up jerk?
At any rate, animals are spiritual teachers in fur/finned clothing. Try thinking like your cat or dog for a moment and see life simply in the here and now. Get straight to your point without a lot of additional words or conditions. Spit it out, already. It’s a refreshing break from the overthinking we habitually do.
Just remember not to lick yourself in public.