“Is it OK to talk?” I get this question all the time during a reading. And the answer is, “Absolutely.”
A lot of people seem to think that a vow of silence on their part is required, that somehow, talking during a reading is “cheating.”
But let me stress something: psychics are here to help you. Not to impress you with their mad skillz.
If you ARE impressed that we pick up stuff before you tell us, that’s all good. The bottom line is that you’re there to get guidance and direction, a way to get unstuck. And a conversation with your reader is a good way to do that.
(This is one reason I don’t do parties anymore: I take what I do seriously and don’t want to be seen as some kind of cool party entertainment. But I will have a beer, thank you.)
Anyway, when I start a session, I begin by asking you what areas of your life you want some clarity on. This helps me focus in right away and give you information that will be practical and useful. It makes the most of our time together and gives you something you can use after you leave.
Personally, I hate those, “Oh, just tell me whatever you get…” sessions. To me, that’s like driving in circles around the parking lot. If you’ve decided to get a reading, clearly there’s something going on. Do yourself a favor and take some time to think about what it is.
It’s exciting and gratifying when I pick up information psychically or from the Other Side – but I live for those moments when my client sees a way forward out of his/her problems. How that happens is a technicality.
Completely agree. To get the most out of a reading, it’s best to think through your questions in advance. Coming in with no idea what to ask will lead you to be disappointed and perhaps even more confused.